Monday, January 10, 2011

To Be, Or Not To Be (Angry)

Hey guys.

Maybe later on in our lives we're gonna face with 'real problem' not a mere 'assignment-tak-siap' (unfinished assignment) kinda thing, but something even more serious like you don't do this, you're fired. Yes, that kinda thing. But if we couldn't cope with something very simple very easy to handle, just don't say anything about wanting bigger problem. Some people like bigger problem, they like challenge. Most people avoided them. Living care-free, problem-less.

Why I'm bringing this up?

I don't wanna say much, but being given a responsibility is not a one person thing. A Prime Minister or President is not a one person thing. It's inclusive of all people under the governance of the leader. If a leader couldn't handle his follower, or people under him, then he's a failure. And later in the hereafter, he will be questioned about his leadership. Did he lead right? Or wrong? Or just passable? Oh no, there's no passable there.

Maybe I was too soft, but I don't want to be too strict at the same time. Everytime I raise my voice for anybody (except my little brother and sister, which by the way I enjoy) else, I would feel very very guilty about it. I like to talk, I like to make jokes and be so cool, be so problem-free-like guy and all. But sometimes, I do go angry. And some people are lucky when I can still contain my anger (which I hope to continue to hold it up and release it somewhere else like going for karaoke or something! HAHA!). Some people may not be so lucky. And for that I'm sorry.

To Be, Or Not To Be Angry

Being angry is sometimes a choice, we can control ourselves. Yes sometimes we snap, but if we can contain it, try to contain it. Let it out somewhere else, but not by punching walls, or doors, or anything.

OK guys, see you later.

5 comments:

  1. cesss..aku baru mengalami perasaan tersebut tadi..time main volleyball..and i hv to be the team captain...perghhhh...sakit ulu hati nak control perasaan geram..

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  2. marah boleh dicontrol.. betul.. tpi kadang2, dalam certain situasi, yang dah melebihi limit menahan kemarahan, kite leh jadi sangat marah n taley control.. apepon, sebolehnya kite kena kawal perasaan marah n jauhkan diri dari cube tuk marah.. kan..kan.. nice topic..like..like..like..

    ika: uhuhuhu.. captain! bru tau.hhuhuhu..

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  3. ika-tahniah tahniah dah naik pangkat, bangga studio kecil dibuatnya...hahhaa...tpi sabar itu penting..sebahagian dari iman kan
    k.nana-sebab tu kalo tahan marah, sometime kene let out thru outlet lain...hahaha...cam makan aiskrim byk ke ape ke..haha...so dah xde dah saki baki marah tu nak topup marah time nanti plak...hahaha....thanks anyway :D

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  4. macam ustazah pula bila nak tulis ayat ni.
    orang yang paling kuat bukan pada kekuatannya, tapi pada bagaimana dia kuat mengawal kemarahannya.

    sometime actually it is better to be angry so that "they" realise..but yes..
    Being angry is sometimes a choice, we can control ourselves.like=)

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  5. farha-thanks, bukan senang nak marah...lebih lebih lgi bila kte bersama ngn org yg lebih kurang sebaya, dah besar dah org kata. haha. xsedap rasa kalau nak marah2 ngn kawan2 sendiri. tapi tulah, nak jaga hati org tapi sendiri naik gila. hahahaha. so, sometimes, kena gak jadi selfish.

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